Dear pregnant self

belly

Laying on your stomach will feel just as great as you remember

smoked salmon will taste as good

as wine will be just as wonderful.. even though you’ll wait 3 weeks to drink a glass when the girls come over.

You think you’re crazy about your husband now

maternity pics 2

but you’ll fall in love –big time- all over again, in a different way, magnified exponentially.

tom and baby 

Giving birth will be the hardest, scariest, most painful thing you’ll ever do

the first two week will be the most challenging you’ll experience

but seeing that little face.. the same face you dreamed about… and finding out her personality is so much like you thought it would be, from the kicks to the hiccups

make it more than worthwhile.

People weren’t lying when they said to sleep as much as you can

they also weren’t lying when they said every day gets better, and easier

and that the time seems to go by so quickly, so savor every single moment.

me and baby4

And as much as you love being pregnant, you’ll love being a mom 1000x more <3

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77 Comments

  1. Nicole @ Making Good Choices on January 31, 2012 at 6:47 pm

    so sweet that gave me goosebumps 🙂

    • Ginger on January 31, 2012 at 8:56 pm

      ME TOO

      my baby turned 1 last week (sob!!) so this seems a lifetime ago for me. absolutely love that last pic. awwww!

  2. maria @ a life to Bragg about on January 31, 2012 at 6:47 pm

    *wipes tear from eye* So TRUE! I love being a mom so much, it’s amazing how much has changed about me since I’ve become one. Today my brother and his wife had a baby and I was so deliriously happy, it was ridic. I love everything baby now haha!

  3. Anna Sherwood on January 31, 2012 at 6:49 pm

    I couldn’t agree more. (congrats by the way).

  4. Katie O on January 31, 2012 at 6:49 pm

    Now i’m teared up. <3

  5. SHANNON on January 31, 2012 at 6:50 pm

    Ditto. All so true and SO beautiful 🙂

  6. Amy@healthyhungryhappy.com on January 31, 2012 at 6:51 pm

    so sweet!! almost cried multiple times hah…ahh i cant wait!

  7. Jennifer (take the day off) on January 31, 2012 at 6:53 pm

    Dumb question–but I’m pregnant and I have been eating smoked salmon…did your doctor tell you not to? It seems like you implied that you weren’t eating it while pregnant as mentioned above. Just curious!

    • Fitnessista on January 31, 2012 at 6:57 pm

      yeah because of possible listeria i avoided it, but i think it’s fine if you heat it up first

  8. Laura Jane @ Recovering Chocoholic on January 31, 2012 at 6:55 pm

    Aww, I’m almost crying! That’s so sweet. I’ll remember that when I’m pregnant.

  9. Christie Lombardo on January 31, 2012 at 6:55 pm

    You guys are so cute!! 🙂

  10. Shannon on January 31, 2012 at 6:56 pm

    so nice to read this now! i’m due in 20 days and cannot wait!

  11. Marci on January 31, 2012 at 6:58 pm

    I want to sleep on my stomach. And eat lox on a bagel. And can’t wait to see if it’s a boy or girl! But I can’t say I love being pregnant, and my time hasn’t been that bad at all.

  12. Simone on January 31, 2012 at 6:59 pm

    As a mommy of 2 with a 3rd on the way, I could not agree more! Love this post!

  13. kara on January 31, 2012 at 7:01 pm

    awww, so incredibly sweet!

  14. Lindsay on January 31, 2012 at 7:03 pm

    Bawling *I blame the pregnancy hormones*.

  15. Erin @ Girl Gone Veggie on January 31, 2012 at 7:04 pm

    Aww this was beautiful! I am so excited for this someday. And so happy for you that your someday is right now! 🙂

  16. Jenn D. on January 31, 2012 at 7:08 pm

    That is the sweetest most accurate post-pregnant analysis! I couldn’t agree more! They are so precious and grow up so fast…I can tell you are enjoying every moment w/your Olivia as I have w/mine. You both look beautiful!

    Jenn (FitMamaOver40). ;0)

  17. Melissa on January 31, 2012 at 7:10 pm

    Beautiful post!

  18. Courtney on January 31, 2012 at 7:16 pm

    Agreed! I fell in love so much with my hubby after our first baby…and every baby after!! And while I absolutely loved being pregnant, there is nothing like holding your baby for the first time 🙂

  19. Kristine @ Busy But Healthy on January 31, 2012 at 7:22 pm

    Fabulous post…couldn’t agree more!

  20. BethT on January 31, 2012 at 7:23 pm

    All so true….and it gets better every day.

  21. MMiller on January 31, 2012 at 7:24 pm

    Goosebumps over here too!! So beautifully said!

  22. Ashley on January 31, 2012 at 7:29 pm

    This is absolutely beautiful – so touching. I love that you mentioned sleeping on your stomach first – I’m 27 weeks pregnant and it’s by far the thing I miss most!!!

  23. Hillary on January 31, 2012 at 7:31 pm

    Adorable. Absolutely adorable.

  24. [New Balance] Nicole on January 31, 2012 at 7:32 pm

    Very, very beautiful Gina. Olivia is one lucky girl. I’m so happy for you!

  25. Kerry @ Totes My Oats on January 31, 2012 at 7:48 pm

    This is such a sweet post! Olivia is just beautiful. Enjoy every minute!

  26. Averie @ Love Veggies and Yoga on January 31, 2012 at 8:05 pm

    1 million percent I echo everything in this post from falling in love with your spouse even more, to every day getting easier, to loving being a mom more than being pregnant a zillion-fold times more!

    The pics of you in this post are fabulous and Olivia is such a sweetie 🙂

  27. Mama Pea on January 31, 2012 at 8:11 pm

    Oh my goodness, goosebumps and a lump in my throat! <3

  28. Shaina on January 31, 2012 at 8:18 pm

    that’s the second time I’ve cried today. thanks a lot haha

    • Fitnessista on January 31, 2012 at 8:19 pm

      np. haha

  29. Kath on January 31, 2012 at 8:18 pm

    So sweet!!

  30. Kelly @ Vegolosophy on January 31, 2012 at 8:26 pm

    Such a great post!

  31. Heather Eats Almond Butter on January 31, 2012 at 8:27 pm

    Loved this Gina. Made me tear up. Very sweet post. 🙂

  32. Melissa (MelissaLikesToEat) on January 31, 2012 at 8:38 pm

    Every single thing is true. 🙂

  33. Shari on January 31, 2012 at 8:41 pm

    This is so, so sweet!!

  34. Kate on January 31, 2012 at 8:43 pm

    Loved it! Oh how I wish I had slept more…. Now I’m pregnant with #2 and Mr Active Toddler doesn’t like to let me rest 🙂

  35. Sara N. on January 31, 2012 at 8:52 pm

    This post was so beautifully written. Thank you for every word and update since you found out you were pregnant. I look forward to reading more of your family posts! Congratulations! She is beautiful:)

  36. ash on January 31, 2012 at 8:57 pm

    Aww this is so sweet- it’s giving me baby fever 🙂

  37. Laury on January 31, 2012 at 9:02 pm

    this post gave me goosebumps. So beautiful! And such a gorgeous photo at the end, you’re so adorable! Livi too 😉

  38. Laura @ She Eats Well on January 31, 2012 at 9:04 pm

    This made my heart melt. Love this post.

  39. Krystle {Fierce|Fabulous|Fit} on January 31, 2012 at 9:19 pm

    This almost made me cry!! I don’t have kids {yet} but I nanny a 3 month old 2 days a week. Today was my second day and I already adore that little boy with all of my heart!! I can’t imagine the love I’ll be bursting with when it’s my own!!! <3

  40. mindy @ just a one girl revolution. on January 31, 2012 at 9:28 pm

    LOVE LOVE LOVE this post, Gina.

  41. Beth on January 31, 2012 at 9:42 pm

    What a sweet post! Thanks for sharing.

  42. Rita @ Healthy Mom, Sexy Wife on January 31, 2012 at 9:43 pm

    Aww that was too sweet. I didn’t really enjoy being pregnant but it was so worth it.

  43. Sarah on January 31, 2012 at 9:53 pm

    so wonderfully written. If its possible, I think that pregnancy and giving birth has left you more beautiful than before! I am so enjoying these baby posts. I have a few years so its nice to live vicariously through you 🙂 Enjoy. Every. Moment.

  44. Laura on January 31, 2012 at 11:25 pm

    I just love your blog. There are many imitators but no one compares! Keep it up!

  45. Christie on January 31, 2012 at 11:50 pm

    Here I am up at nearly midnight and can’t sleep. I’m overdue and being induced in 6 hours. This was lovely to read 🙂

  46. Amanda on January 31, 2012 at 11:51 pm

    Very sweetly said. 🙂

  47. Ali on January 31, 2012 at 11:55 pm

    So sweet! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. <3

  48. Jaime on February 1, 2012 at 12:12 am

    beautiful post! I’m 30 weeks pregnant and getting cranky so I needed this today!

  49. Bonnie on February 1, 2012 at 12:22 am

    Wow. This was beautiful! Thank you for sharing. 🙂

  50. Wendy Heath on February 1, 2012 at 12:57 am

    Gave me CHILLS to think that you dreamed your baby’s face before she was born. 🙂 Love it.

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