pros of self-quarantine
Hi friends! How are you doing in the land of unknown? Weโre hanging in there and only on day 4 of self quarantine. Itโs very surreal not having an end point and feeling like youโre constantly holding your breath. For now, weโre taking it day by day, spending as much time outside as we can, and trying to find fun things to do with the kiddos.
This post is going to be a bit all over the place, but I wanted to share some of the pros of this whole situation, my game plan for being home with the kids for weeks, and how we can help others and small businesses during this time. Please know that Iโm so grateful that youโre hanging out with me over here. I love that even during social distancing, we can still connect in this way. Weโre all in this together and please know that Iโm here if you ever want to chat or vent. (I love sending IG voice messages!)
Pros of self quarantine:
(I have to leave a note here and acknowledge the fact that I have it pretty cushy in the sense that Iโm able to work from home. I know that others are in extremely difficult situations as businesses continue to close, jobs are lost, those in the medical field struggle to find childcare as schools close, and itโs just tough times all around. This all weighs extremely heavily on my heart and Iโm sending love to everyone going through a hard time. Hereโs my attempt to focus a little on the positive side of a horrible situation.)
– No need to make awkward conversation or small talk. You see someone while youโre out on a walk and a simple โHiโ and a wave will do.
– NO REAL CLOTHES OR MAKEUP. I love putting together cute outfits and wearing makeup (ps my fave is 10% off the site right now! Check out the Color Intense lipstick, the Countertime collection, and overnight peel). Itโs been so easy to just wear athletic clothes and throw on a baseball cap.
– The opportunity to catch up on things around the house that we never have time to do. So far, weโve organized the weird tupperware container cabinet (we all have one of those, right?), the garage (!), and did a full day of yard work. I replanted my lil veggie garden and Iโm so excited for greens to grow.
– Quality time with the kiddos. This has made me realize how much time we spend racing around to school, extra-curricular activities and appointments. With all of those wiped from our calendar, weโve had so much more time to PLAY and hang out together. Iโve never ever thought of myself as a homeschool-type person (especially since the girls have such incredible teachers!) but I can absolutely see the draw. I LOVE having them home. (Check back with me a week from now and weโll see how Iโm feeling about that lol.)
– Time to read. I always save reading for just before bed, and reading during the day has felt like pure luxury.
– No alarm clock. Praise the lord! I may or may not have slept until 8am every day and it.is.awesome.
As far as what weโre going to do on the school front, hereโs my plan + some resources Iโm using:
– Livโs school was on spring break this week, so Iโm treating it like spring break. Weโre just having fun and catching up on things around the house and I feel like I can use it as a chance to get my life together for next week. Her school is switching to online learning starting next week, so Iโll likely use the suggestions and resources they provide.
– At the same time, the girls thrive on routine, so Iโll set up a loose schedule. Iโm not sure what it will look like yet, but it will include time for art, music, academics, Spanish, play outside, indoor play, and screen time (that will be when I get in my own workout). Instead of like school, Iโm treating it more like camp. Weโll have a routine to follow, but if things donโt go according to plan, itโs NBD. Weโre all in survival mode over here.
– Weโre taking advantage of the learning resources so many companies have generously provided during this weird time.
Here are some faves:
* Daily art lessons with Mo Willems, the girlsโ favorite author
* Accidental homeschoolers Facebook group
* Educational companies offering free subscriptions
* Busy Toddler! Iโve been using her ideas for sensory play for the kids
* We can listen to some of our favorite celebrities read childrenโs books
* Cosmic Kids Yoga (the girls LOVE this) and Just Dance on YouTube
* My friend Brittany put together a comprehensive list of homeschool resources in this post
With everything going on, many of us are wondering how we can help.
Here are some of the suggestions Iโve come across. This list isnโt very long, and if you have ideas or suggestions, please leave them in the comments section below!
– STAY THE HECK HOME. Even if you donโt feel like you could become infected, you could unknowingly pass the virus onto someone else. If you need more convincing, watch this video. Yes, itโs hard and sad to cancel vacations and events, but itโs necessary to protect the vulnerable. We can always reschedule these things for later.
– Check on your elderly neighbors who may need extra supplies or support. Even if it means leaving something on the porch for them, it can genuinely help.
– While youโre purchasing food for yourself and your family, consider donating to your local food back if you have the means to do so.
– Try to support local and small businesses however you can. Buy a gift card from your favorite theatre or restaurant to use at a later date. If youโre surrounded by closures, use this time to leave Yelp or Google reviews for your favorite spots.
If you have any additional ideas, please share!
If you feel anxious and overwhelmed, Iโm there with ya. Letโs just take it day by day and support each other however we can. <3 Check out my IG stories for home workout ideas during this crazy time, too!
Thanks for checking in today and Iโll see ya tomorrow.
xoxo
Gina
These are great ideas and it’s comforting to know many of us around the world are in the same boat but haven’t lost our humanity.
Schools are still open here is Australia and I’m 90% horrified at that, and 10% terrified of being home with my kids when they do close.
But we are so lucky to have the ability to work from home and for me, to have healthy kids who I can choose to isolate to flatten the curve. Every little bit helps.
Take care and thank you for being positive and proactive xo
This post was really helpful in this uncertain and unprecedented time. Thank you so much! It gave me a badly needed boost.
I like this a lot Gina! Thanks for sharing how you all are handling this new normal……….it’s not easy and not knowing when it will end is really tough. For so many of us that are hearing bad news job wise or just not being able to get around like we usually do is not easy. I am feeling grateful for all I have. ๐
Totally understand your sentiment here and appreciate that you are not making light of the situation but rather trying to share a positive. Iโm a doctor and a new mom, and most of us docs have never experienced such anxiety and sadness in our careers and daily lives. Issues of childcare aside (which has been a huge ordeal), the constant attention to patient care has interfered with my attentiveness as a mom even when Iโm home. Just sharing my experience in case anyone can relate – wish I had the luxury to worry about daily routine for the kiddo.
I love that you are setting up a schedule for the kids! Even I need a schedule or I end up just laying in bed watching tv all day! Are you teaching the girls Spanish?