See ya, cloth
After what-if-ing and maybe-ing, I finally just gave the cloth diapers to a friend to see if she wants them. She has a little boy and has been really wanting to try it out, so when they came over to play on Friday, I asked her to take the diapers and detergent with her.
I really wanted to love cloth diapers.
When it came down to it, it just wasnโt for us. The actual act of using the diapers ended up being much easier than I anticipated -the wet bag is a genius invention-
however, I donโt like them for a pretty lame reason: they make Livโs clothes fit her strangely. Theyโre extremely bulky (even the streamlined all-in-one pocket diapers I had) and it just seemed silly to have to go out and buy all new pants for her, when she has plenty that fit her. Weโre also very fortunate to have been given a lot of adorable hand-me-downs from a friend who found out sheโs pregnant with a boy, and they all fit Liv right now.
Like I said, using the diapers was pretty easy. We didnโt have any leaks, and when I changed Liv, Iโd flush the diaper liner and then take the insert out, put both into the wet bag and zip. There was no smell at all, which was a pleasant surprise. I ended up washing the diapers on the day we used them (rinse, hot wash, 2 rinses, line dry), since I didnโt have a ton of diapers, and we used disposables for naps and when we left the house.
Then, there was the great stink incident of 2012.
Of course, the only time very recently I decided to use a cloth diaper on Liv, was the one time I didnโt put in a liner.
It needed to have a liner.
I went to change her and was like, โoh god, what do I do with this?!โ
Tom was DYING laughing and said, โJust throw it away!โ
โIโm not throwing this away- it was $25!โ
โWell I probably wouldnโt put it in the washer like thatโฆโ
So after changing Livi into a disposable diap, there I was, outside, hosing the diaper off into the gravel on the side yard (I know, totally gross but I didnโt know what else to do). Tom and I were laughing so hard, we were crying, and Liv was looking at both of us like we were crazy.
That was the last time I used a cloth diaper.
Since then, Iโve been wondering if Iโll want to use them when sheโs a little older, or maybe for our next baby, and then I decided to just call it good. Itโs funny because everyone Iโve talked to who cloth diapers is absolutely in love with it, or not using it at all, and I was kind of in the middle of the spectrum. I liked it, but not enough to keep doing it. Thatโs definitely one of the tricky things about raising a baby- you want to plan and prepare as much as possible, but you donโt really know what will work best for your family until the baby is here.
So, since Iโve bid adieu to cloth, I wanted to ask if there were other suggestions to be more โgreenโ in our household. We do little things, like shower instead of take baths, use all-natural cleaning products and recycle (one of the major things I love about our house: recycling! In Valdosta, we didnโt have neighborhood recycling, so Tom had to fill his Jeep with paper bags full of recyclables and drop them off at the base recycling center every week. It was a PITA to say the least), but Iโd love any of your ideas!
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That story is too funny! At least you gave the cloth diapers a shot, though!
THE LITTLE FEET! Holy cow, that is cute!! : )
So glad you posted on this issue. Iโm in the process of deliberating this right now. Whatโs the right thing to do? I canโt explain it, but I almost feel guilty for going disposableโฆbut Iโm pretty sure thatโs the direction Iโll be heading for numerous reasons. Youโre right: everyone needs to do what works and what is best for them, and hopefully others wonโt be judgemental of these choices.
I like your idea of making up for the green-liness factor in other ways ๐
Haha! This story made me laugh. And the little picture of her perfect baby toes makes my heart explode!
Bottom line, you gave it a try andโฆ oh well! There is no such thing as โperfect parentingโ, you gotta do what works for you!
I loved cloth diapering my *older* baby. Ages 6 to 18 mos or so we used them. Couldnโt have done it in the early newborn days; too cumbersome, too sleep deprived, too much. But you are so right, the pants situation is really tricky sometimes! I had to buy a size (or two) up and even then, some times it wasnโt perfect. I fell in love with cloth diapers the way some women fall in love with shoes. I seriously was INTO the cuteness factor and it was a sad day when a fave diaper was outgrown. Lol
Good for you for passing them onto a friend. I wish I had a little baby to take that pink fuzzy bunz? off your hands. So cute ๐
Iโm glad you posted this. Iโm due in Feb and Iโm still so undecided!!! I wish I had some to see if it would work, or not. I think Iโll just buy like, 3-4 and get the liners to try it out but I donโt know. I see what you mean about it just being convenient, and what do you do when you go out? Its so hard! You gotta use the disposable anyway!! Decisions. Your friend got lucky!! Oh well, you tried and it didnโt work out ๐ ADORABLE feet pic!!
โGreenโ idea: I save all the tops and ends and nibs and nubbs and skins and peels of vegetables when I cut them up in a large ziplock bag in my freezer. Then, after a few weeks/months when the bag gets filled I boil it all in a huge pot of water with salt to make homemade veggie broth. So easy!
That is a super idea. We compost all of our food scraps (and thatโs what I was going to suggest to Gina as a means of being more โgreenโ) but making veggie broth is certainly more useful! Gina, you could still compost egg shells and coffee grounds!
โฆand fruit scraps ๐
this is kind of interesting but i actually save all of my egg shells for a friend, since i eat so many. she grinds them into a powder and eats it for calcium.
what do i do with the coffee grounds?
I totally did the same thing with cloth diapers!! I bought tons though and spent a FORTUNE and then switched to disposable. Made my husband crabby to say the least. All my kids have short legs so add that to the huge diaper bum and pants would never ever fit!
Recycling ideaโฆthrift fashion.
I feel like I couldโve written this post word for word. I wanted to love cloth diapering this time around, but I didnโt. We did it for a while, though so we did get our moneyโs worth out of the investment we made.
As far as green goesโwe make sure to turn off everything at night, including laptops & computers. I also line dry or hang a lot of my clothes to save energy usage & electric costs & handwash/dry alot of dishes instead of using the dishwasher. Theyโre pretty simple, but I like how it teaches my kids to be more โgreenโ and also gets them more involved with housework & chores, hehe ๐
Re: about putting clothes outside to dry, my husband is an allergist and if you donโt have allergies it is a great idea. If you HAVE allergies then it isnโt a good idea because the allergens get and stay on your clothes and can make you miserable. If you live in a cold weather climate the. It isnt an issue because everything is dead. Unfortunately I live in Tucson too and our allergy season is year round!!!
Clothes would not fit my kids if it werenโt for their cloth diapers! they help hold up their pants.
Love this! I keep telling people I donโt think cloth diapering is for me (currently 5 months preggo) and they say itโs not that bad, but this just confirmed it for me! No way, no thank you!
One thing I did was switch to a diva cup โ google it, itโs amazing. I wonโt go into details, but just tell you that it was a very good choice for me, and itโs so nice not to have to toss (or flush) all that waste!
I also use homemade cleaners โ aka โ vinegar/water etc both at home and work! Doing my part the best I can!! Also unsubscribing from newspaper delivery and just reading online! ๐
Aw yeah! Diva Cup FTW!
haha the story is TOO funny!! Her baby feet are just so cute!!
Thinking about washing a cloth diaper skeeves me out a little bit. At the end of the day you have to do whatโs right for you and your family. Livโs little feet are so adorable!
I gave cloth diapers a good try too with my 3rd baby and gave up for similar reasons. They made her pants fit funny and all the kinds I tried also leaked. Cloth wipes are my green contribution. I have been using them instead of disposable diaper wipes for over two years and love them.
My babyโs due in just over three weeks although weโve bought some โgreenโ newborn diapers, I do plan on cloth diapering. Iโm going with gDiapers because they look like they rock, plus we had some handed down to us (although they are in medium and large sizes so they donโt really help with a newborn!). Iโm *hoping* that they work out good, but because Iโm not a mom yet, I have no idea.
At least you gave them a chance. I want to try really hard to give them a chance too just because I really donโt agree with how long disposable diapers sit in landfills for. I wanna think that, that reason alone with prevent me from using them even if we have poo explosions also lol, but I guess weโll see!!
Cloth diapers are so easy to use! Even with poop and no liner. We have never used a liner with either of our 2 babies. As for cloth diapers being bulky, did you try prefolds with a cover?!? Prefolds and covers are amazingly trim for cloth diapers. Iโm sad to see that you have chosen to not only formula feed but also use disposables. I find this post so discouraging to other moms to be who are planning to cloth diaper.
i did not choose to formula feed. formula was the only way i could make sure my baby got enough nourishment.
โso discouraging?โ i said it was easier than anticipated, but something weโre choosing not to do. iโm sad to see you judging, even more so if youโre a fellow mom. itโs challenging enough to find what works best for your family, no need to have โholier than thousโ turning their nose up at you along the way.
My baby is only 5 weeks old and I have already learned how hard and personal it is to make parenting choices. No mother should judge another for the decisions that they make about what is right for their baby and their family. We are all trying our best! Letโs spread the mommy love instead of the mommy judgment <3
Amen! The only โdiscouragingโ thing about this post was that comment! Iโm so sad to see women STILL judging other women as to the way they feed/diaper/etc. their kids. Arenโt we past that people!! Goodness!
I thought you did a very good job at explaining why you HAD to use formula. It seemed like you did more than most would do to make breast feeding work as long as possible.
As far a cloth diapers, I think you are being very honest about your family situation. Iโm not even a mom and I found your previous posts about cloth diapers were informational.
When I read Lisaโs comment the first thing I thought was she must have not read many of your previous posts. Maybe she should go back and look at some of your previous posts.
These mommy wars are horrible. Our little girl is 5 months and Iโve never felt so judged in my life. We formula feed and use disposables. Yes I have reasonings for the formula feeding but why is it anyoneโs problem? Our little girl is healthy, happy and thriving. Let me starve my child and then see the reactions I get. Either way Iโm considered a horrible mom.
You are doing the right thing Gina and thatโs because itโs right for YOUR family. At the end of the day that is all that matters.
one of my good friends said it best: being a mom is like being punched in the face. youโre judged for everything, but the people judging seem to miss the fact that your baby is healthy, happy, safe, fed and has a huge smile on their face.
youโre doing an amazing job and keep up the great work <3
Youโre an awesome mom, Gina!
Some moms are so judgy.They think they are so perfect and if you donโt do the exact same perfect things your horrible and selfish.I used formula and disposable diapers.So what?Obviously Olivia looks pretty happy ๐
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Comments like Lisaโs are so disheartening. Weโre supposed to be teaching our kids to be respectful and courteous to others, no matter what their differences. Sad to see moms not practicing it themselves!
i couldnโt agree more. โbe kind to others and treat them the way you want to be treated! now excuse mama while i get on the internet and write rude things to/about someone iโve never met.โ sad.
Dear Lisa, I too am a firm believer in breast feeding and cloth diapering. However, your decision to judge another mom on what she has decided to do after giving them a try is in excusable! If you go back and read some of the previous posts you may not feel the same. Remember that you can not choose to judge someone till you have walked in their shoes. Those may not be the choices you or I would make, but we are not in their family. Gina-good for you for knowing whatโs best for your family and being a fantastic mommy!
Good for you Gina โ I love reading your posts (ALL OF THEM) and even though my kids are long out of the diaper stage itโs nice to have great options that work for you and your family. You Rock!
With really poopy diapers, you just dunk it and scrub it a bit in the toilet, then throw it in the wet bag. Or you can go ahead and wash your load of diapers so it doesnโt sit in there for a day or so. It sounds kinda gross, but really, toilets are pretty clean!
Iโm one of those that love cloth! Yes, they are bulkier and clothes donโt fit as well, but really, you have to buy bigger clothes eventually because babies grow, so I donโt see that as a disadvantage to cloth. I think people get caught up in the new type of cloth diapers that are $$$ to buy, but the prefolds and covers are so easy and really economical.
Iโm really not a Save-the-Earth kinda person, but when I use disposables, I feel bad about it! Iโm like, I should have just used our normal ones! This is gonna sit around foreeeeever. With lots of things in life, not just diapering, I try and remember that not too long ago, no one had as many choices โ you just had to do it. How fortunate are we to have so many alternatives! Thanks for being honest with your experience. With all things child-related, people are polarized in their opinions and think they are doing the โrightโ thing.
You could stop driving an SUV. (Hey, you asked.)
I have a sedan, which gets awesome gas mileage.
I misunderstood and thought you were asking for tips on what your whole household could do to improve its environmental impact โ I was referring to your husbandโs vehicle.
Oh, gotcha- He only really drives to base and back, and carpools w another squadron guy.
Carpooling is huge โ and something I am so bad about. I love my autonomy! Iโll keep working on it!
Iโm so glad you wrote this post! Itโs always nice to hear other peopleโs experiences and thoughts on this issue. Iโm thinking weโll start with disposables the first couple months (to keep me sane and since the baby will be so tiny at first), and Iโll buy a few cloth diapers to see how we like them after that. If we arenโt fans, I wonโt feel bad for splurging on a bunch of diapers we wonโt use, and if we do like them, I can always buy more!
Definitely a good lessonโฆ gotta do what works for you!
We chose to use disposables, but picked Earthโs Best as our brand. It was my little way of attempting to make the best choice that also worked for our family. A little pricier, but they break down quicker when thrown away and are made of natural ingredients. No little beads in the lining. They also donโt have the chemical smell that I found in several of the other brands.
As for other โgreenโ solutions, we do a lot! We compost, which has made a huge difference in how much garbage we have each week โ and we donโt even have a garden, we just give the finished compost to our neighbors.
We try to combine errands (not going out once a day, but once every few days and getting several things done) and walking everywhere we can. We get books from the library or used bookstore, rather than buying new and we try to get as much of our own โstuffโ used, as well. Freecycle is a great resource for all sorts of free stuff and Craigslist/resale/consignment shops are where we buy most of our sonโs clothes/big toys.
Hope that helps!
Go you for trying cloth diapers! I was too intimidated to even attempt cloth diapering. I love how you write about your experiences and what works for your family but are also open to everyone elses experiences! We must stop the mommy wars!
i think the mommy wars are the most ridiculous thing- every baby and family are so different
Do you compost? I canโt recall if you mentioned this before.
It seems like you do many other green things, there isnโt much else I can think of right now.
no, i have a cactus garden that doesnโt seem to need it ๐ i would love to have a real garden and need for compost one of these days
Some towns have a compost pickup! Look into it.
I think itโs perfectly fine that you chose to give up the cloths. It doesnโt make or break your โgreennessโ (Iโm sure thatโs not a word). Anyway, you seem to do pretty well in a lot of other areas so I donโt think you should feel guilty.
I use disposables, but I also:
โข recycle everything possible
โข use a lot of hand-me-downs for my child
โข drive a very Eco friendly vehicle
โข have started thrifting more thanks to Megโs fashion posts ๐
โข make my own cleaners
โข turn off lights when Iโm not in the room
โข do Fitnessista workouts at home (no driving to the gym)
โข use a hand towel in the kitchen for drying hands instead of paper towels
โข make my babyโs food
โข carry my own bags for groceries and if I do get plastic bags, I use them as trashcan liners in the bathroom
โข cut up old shirts to use for dusting and just wash them with my towels and reuse them
โข wipe with leaves so I donโt use toiletโฆ.bahaha, just thought Iโd add that one in there for the green extremists out there!! Totally joking!
I have to stop now. I feel Iโm rambling, but really itโs all the little things that really add up!
haha the last one cracked me up!
i love the tshirt idea as a rag- iโll try that ๐
xoxo
Yep! Exactly.
Good for you to try! I looked into it, did TONS of research and alas we are disposables over here (to a crazy amount of judgment btw). We try to reduce our carbon footprint in other ways and give high fives to mommas who cloth diaper.
We DO try to (when we are home) use our own wipes! We cut up old receiving blankets, use our wipes warmer and I have a solution of water, coconut oil and a bit of baby wash โ Evanโs bottom smells good enough to eat lol โ but they arenโt for on the go although Iโm sure I could put them in some sort of Tupperwareโฆ
We are t-shirt rag people here too! They soak things up quite nicely!
I appreciate this post- I had finally decided to take the cloth diapering plunge because I, too, noticed that it seemed like everyone who uses cloth LOVES them to the extreme. Iโm not crazy about the cloth- after a couple months Iโve been having issues with a funk that wonโt go away. I wonโt switch to disposable because of budgeting issues, but I can totally understand why a person would want to. As usual, thanks for your honesty!
Green tip that I wish I followed more: Buy clothing made in the USA, and invest in it wisely
Also- I do loooooove my cloth wipes- I made some out of hemp flannel, and they are so soft and sturdy and durable. Theyโre easy to clean because you donโt have to be so concerned with the proper care and line drying and all that. Itโs fun to find the perfect scent for them too!
Have you tried stripping your diapers? Or even boiling them for the smell?
Yes, I think the problem is our hard water. Adding a little vinegar was helping for awhile, but not anymoreโฆ It smells like my baby is eating a boatload of asparagus!!
Thanks for the tips ๐
Head to http://www.diaperswappers.com, the forum called โDiaper Chatter and Q & Aโ and either do a search with the word โsmellโ in the subject, or start a thread of your own. Those ladies will give you all the tips on getting rid of the smell.
I wanted to give cloth diapers a try but hubby wasnโt on board.
As for the green factor, the only thing I can think of is with the wipes. My mom taught me that if Avery ever gets a diaper rash to not use wipes on her because itโll hurt. Just use a soft wet washcloth to clean her. Ive only had to do it a couple times but it worked just as well. So an option might be to just have a separate stack of washcloths to use for diaper changes regularly.
Thank you for your honest post about the cloth diapers! I really appreciate it since most people probably donโt want to admit that itโs just not working for them.
Iโm also expecting a baby in February and I loved your pictures of the cute cloth diapers! I donโt think weโll use them in the beginning, but I would definitely give them a try later.
And donโt take that comment about the formula to serious! Anyone who reads this blog knows how hard you tried to breastfeed!!!
Different question: how many clothes did you buy for Liv before she was born? Did you get a lot of newborn sized clothes? And if so how long did they fit? Baby clothes are my new obsession, but I donโt want to get a bunch that end up being too small.
thank you, stephanie! iโm so excited for you- feb will be here before you know it ๐
i didnโt buy a ton of newborn clothes- just a few onesies, pants (it was cold here in jan) and some jammies. i knew she would outgrow them quickly, and she did. she wore the 0-3 clothes for much longer. i bought a ton of baby clothes while i was pregnant because iโd find them on clearance- iโd just get a variety of sizes and guess which size sheโs be wearing for each season (she ended up being pretty true to size. sheโs almost 10 months and the 6-12 month clothes fit her perfectly)
One consideration is that newborns spit up constantly and blow out their diapers and often need to be changed several times during the day. My 2 year old can wear the same outfit from morning until bedtime, whereas my 2 month old is sometimes on her third onesie by 11am. With both of my kids, Iโve stocked up on plenty of cozy but inexpensive sleepers and onesies for the early months. When I see an adorable, more expensive outfit that I canโt resist, I buy it in a larger size so that she can get more use out of it at an older age!! I guess that would count as a green tip too ๐ Youโll be so glad when your baby grows into 18m and you open up the drawer and find all this cute stuff that you forgot you had!
Oh, I love toes on babies! So cute! My mom once told me that she used cloth diapers with me. No diaper liners back then, so she did EXACTLY what you didโฆ hose it off in the yard before throwing it into the wash. I give her A LOT of credit!
I felt cloth diapering was too much effort for our family. My husband is gone 6 months out of the year, and we live in Europe, where a load of laundry takes about 4 hours plus, no joke, and the washer is a quarter the size of an American one. (Weโre an AF family, stationed in Germany)โฆ.so it was just way too hard. In a perfect world, where I have a husband home every night to watch my daughter while I launder / clean diapers, etc., we would revisit the idea. Where we live in Germany, we recycle EVERYTHING. Our actual trash is a tiny amount of what the typical American throws away. So, I just thought about ways to stay green other than cloth diapering/ economize on diapers. I use Amazon Mom and set up a recurring shipment for diapers, itโs super cheap that way. Cloth diapers are great, but not worth the effort and time for some families. Iโm glad you posted on this! The real importance of raising your baby is the love you give her, not what kind of diaper you use.
And, military mothers, where I live, itโs cheaper than PXTRA/commissary to use Amazon Mom. It may be a regional thing too.
Weโve been doing cloth since my baby girl was 7 months and sheโs nearly 18 months now. We tried them initially but she was too small and we had leaks all the time. I ended up doing a 2 week trial with a local store and that was the best thing ever! Since there are so many brands/styles, I could see what fit, how it washed/dried, and how easy it was to use. My girl is tiny and yes, cloth can be bulky โ we do fuzzibunz, happy heinys, and bummis AIO which are a bit trimmer. I canโt stress trying them first since it really is very helpful. I only have 11 diapers that we wash/line dry overnight. I donโt use a diaper sprayer โ a good shake in the toilet, pre-rinse before the wash and itโs good to go. I didnโt even buy a wet bag since I either put them directly into the washing machine during the day or throw them in a few plastic grocery bags. I should add that for the most part, Iโm a SAHM so it is pretty darn easy with my lifestyle. I think if she was in daycare or with others it might not be as easy for them.
I think it is really great you tried cloth diapers Gina. Iโm sure youโll find other ways to be green. Iโm working on it myself โ Iโve been making a big effort to reduce the amount of foil, plastic wrap and ziplock bags I use and replace them with tupperware or dishes as much as possible. Also minimizing my paper towel usage. I could definitely do better, but I try.
I donโt have kids (though I hope to in the not too distant future) but I have really admired your rolling with the punches attitude toward mothering. You tried to breastfeed, it only partially worked out for you, well ok, you did what you needed to do for your daughter. Same for diapering. Iโve gotten the sense that having a young baby is pretty much the hardest thing ever, so I applaud people for making the best of those first couple years how ever they have to as long as their child is happy and healthy! Keep it up!
Ugh the cloth diapering debate!! Before I ever got pregnant I watched my sister in law and a few friends go through them and decide later they were not for them. I decided to not even try. Why invest all of the money? I donโt care if people judge me for it, I think Iโve done a pretty great job as a mom thus far! We recycle, I still nurse and I use Eco friendly cleaning products (or ones I make). But whoโs keeping score? Seriously.
I feel like us moms canโt win. No matter what we are going to be judged. Itโs sad. Thereโs a difference between enlightening someone who may not be aware of something, in a respectful manner. Then thereโs straight up judging and laying on mommy guilt. Who needs it!
Ps- love those littl toes!!
I also tried cloth diapering (we did it for 4 months) and it just really wasnโt for us. I also hated the way it made my sonโs clothes fit. It wasnโt necessarily HARD, but being in a small apartment seemed to make it harder. I finally sold most of them on craigslist. Now we use Earthโs Best and they seem to be my favorite diaper (holds more than 7th Gen, Whole Foods, and Huggies Natural). They are amazing, I never need diaper cream, and a few of my friends now use them over Pampers or Huggies (my son immediately gets a rash and I canโt take the chemical smell).
I am frustrated with trying to be green. I thought I was doing well by using 7th Gen cleaning products, although on EWG they get awful ratings! I just bought Green Mission at Whole Foods (gets an A) and love it. Now I just need โgreenerโ dishwashing liquid and other cleaners. EWG is a great resource for those things (oh and for baby shampoo safeness, too).
Itโs tough being a mom and trying to stay green also! Iโm super crazy about recycling, too ๐ Good for you for trying cloth diapering, and being honest about why it didnโt work. Love your blog!
I donโt know if someone has posted this already but I hardly use the dryer after I wash my clothes, I either do drying rack or a line. Sometimes Iโll throw things in for a few minutes when they are the end of air drying to add some softness.
I also recycle as much as possible and have a little compost bucket that I give to a coworker (no garden of my own yet). I also try to buy clothes second-hand as much as possible (and just be gentle on the things I do own so they last a long time) and donate things instead of tossing them (unless they are broken).
I have a teeny wee car and try to walk as much as possible, or carpool.
My husband and I have also been doing meatless days during the week, which also helps on the grocery bill among other things!
I appreciate the realness of your blog. You donโt tell us something works for you just to make everyone happy. (Which is ridiculous btw). This actually helps the rest of us not feel bad if we donโt cloth diaper.. or if we ate that cookie this afternoon. ๐
Everyone needs to remember we are all different. Nothing is one sized fits all. (even if it says so) ๐ So why should motherhood be considered that? You have a wonderful little family Gina.
Thanks for sharing your trials so those of us who donโt have kids yet have some starting point- and it helps us feel better about trying out different things to find out whatโs right for OUR family is OK.
Ughhh I am not even a mother and I am already dreading the mommy wars and frankly am sick of reading/hearing it. Itโs just negative energy out in the world. How is it any different in questioning someoneโs beliefs or values?โฆ.
Question- I am just curious if some of the cloth-diapering moms could weigh in on the difference in the carbon footprint of cloth vs disposable. Obviously there is much more physical waste, but I wonder about all the water used in the wash cycles (you said you did quite a few rinses/washes per load? and i read someone else blog who said she had to do at least 1-2 loads a day when they were cloth diapering) just curious how it measures up..
Interesting you brought that up because it was something i considered when i was pregnant. A client asked me if I really thought cloth was more โgreenโ with all of the water usage. My sister in law had a truck service that came for the dirty cloths and if you think about the truck, gas, water and all the bleach they use it doesnโt really seem too green! Itโs a toss up. Iโm sure there are still more pros to cloth diapering but it made me think! With disposable youโre taking the most biodegradable substance and wrapping it in plasticโฆ.soโฆi Just donโt know! I canโt imagine running all of that through my tiny washing machine that breaks every other month haha so we went with disposable! That and like unsaid above I saw a few friends and family who had a similar experience to Gina.
Would love to know the stats on carbon footprint as well!
Mommy Wars can die. Seriously, such a complete and utter waste of energy. Live and let live!!
Iโll take it one further: SO WHAT if a mom doesnโt even try breastfeeding, or give it her all (whatever โallโ is, thatโs very subjective) before throwing in the towel? So what? Itโs such a personal, individual choice. Iโm just grateful to live in the modern age that we do, where safe and healthy formula is readily available.
Nice post! I was never tempted to cloth diaper because I pretty much knew I wouldnโt want to mess with it (ha, pun intended). But good for you for giving it a try to see!
Rolling with the punches, indeed. Thatโs mom-hood (-:
Thanks for sharing your experience! It seems like it is so popular to cloth diaper nowadays and I never even considered it. I am a full time working mom and my little girl goes to daycare. It would have been really hard to swing it I think. Disposables are soooo convenient! Good for those who pull it off and love it though. ๐
This was a very timely post! I am just getting ready to start using the cloth diapers I have on my 2 month old. I was ALL about cloth diapers when I was pregnant. I havenโt been as anxious once I had a real living, breathing and pooping and peeing baby on my hands ๐ Iโm a little nervous that I wonโt love it, just like you have described. I really hope that I do like it enough since I really hate the idea of continuing to use disposable diapers and the cost and waste.
The environmental argument should be a small portion of a rational personโs decision. The best thing for the environment? Donโt have babies. Donโt drive cars. Donโt build homes. End human existence. Itโs all a cost/benefit trade-off. Is the convenience of disposables worth the costs to YOU? Thatโs all that matters.
Disposables were totally worth all costs (incl. $, time and environmental) to me.
I used disposables for both my boys. I didnโt even consider cloth. I work full time and donโt have the time for that much laundry. Plus as someone mentioned above, it really is a tradeoff between landfill space and water waste. Cloth diapering takes a LOT of water plus a lot of electricity to heat up the water.
Anywho, Iโm a big believer in doing whatever works FOR YOU. When my boys were younger I would get advice about following such-and-such expert about how to feed/clothe/diaper/discipline/etc., and I got fed up with trying to do what someone else considers โperfectโ and just did what worked best for us. Yay for you for figuring out what works best for you.
Random little green ideas Iโve tried:
Make your own veggie and chicken broth. Itโs pretty easy, then you wonโt need to buy a packaged kind every time you want soup. Bonus: you control the sodium.
Fitness inspired- avoid exercise machines. Producing and replacing them takes a lot of natural resources, plus they guzzle electricity. Obviously theyโre good sometimes, but whenever I have the option to go outside or do a class- anything that doesnโt require a machine- Iโll pick that first.
Drive less. Consolidate your errands if possible, and/or do them on the way to/from work so it isnโt an extra trip. Your gas mileage will be better if you try to make all your errands in one trip so the engine doesnโt get cold in between. Less fuel, less maintenance, less money wasted, and you wonโt have to replace your car as quickly. Americansโ use of cars is easily one of the worst things we do for the environment.
When you buy online, donโt get overnight shipping. Better yet, buy local goods. Shipping our goods across the country takes a ton of fuel, and shipping them via plane (aka overnight) is even more wasteful.
Try bulk groceries. Things Iโve gotten in bulk: all sorts of nuts and seeds (roasted and raw), lentils, beans, nut butters (fresh ground!), flours. Packaging creates a lot of waste. Some places even have bulk olive oil, honey, and coffee. Bonus is that itโs often cheaper for a high-quality item.
Cloth diapers, who knew it was such a touchie subject! I experienced quite the opposite. I knew that quitting work and staying home after having our daughter I would have to cut back on expenses and decided to look into cloth after seeing one of your posts. Thanks for all the info btw. Well I kept things hush for a while bc a lot of my friends/family have โopinionsโ and are not very eco-friendly. Well once they found out we were doing cloth we really got nailed about it and were criticized to the point that people found it an inconvenience to change my babies diaper in the church nursery. Made me so mad! Anyway, im still using them 6 months later, I wouldnt say I LOVE it bc they are stinky diapers but its nice not having to worry about buying disposables. I guess theres always judgement.
I feel like Iโll have this same problemโnot many folks I know have used cloth, so I fear the judgment. But weโve gotta do what works for us, right? Good for you for sticking to your guns!
Youโre husband could stop flying aviation fuel guzzling jets. KIDDING!! ๐ Americaโs security is too valuable, hats off to him and other soldiers.
We try to buying anything we can made locally. Crap from overseas goes by ship, rail and semi. Big drain on resources. We recycle & compost. We keep the heat lower, put on slippers. I plant hearty perennials and donโt water unnecessarily. We put in on demand hot water heater, high efficiency appliances and use timers and surge protectors for lamps and electronics. I bought some mesh produces bags. I was tired of using a body bag sized bags from the roll in the produce department. Serious, why are they 6 feet long?
hahaha touchรฉ ๐
ohh, i love those ideas- thank you!
Sheesh. Some people are snark-city. I am a BFing / Cloth Diapering mommy, but there is stuff I do NOT do, just because it isnโt practical for me โ like use or make โgreenโ cleaning supplies. I like my bleach. Good for you for knowing what works and what doesnโt. BTW, your post about the sparkly TOMS for Livi, where you describe her gaspingโฆ can you please get that on video? It is probably adorable.
Same here! I donโt think there is a contradiction in liking some things natural, and some things with a heavy dose of bleach! I cloth diaper part time (when not traveling or staying somewhere other than home,) and I breastfeed, but you could NEVER get me to give birth without an epidural. My hat is totally off to you Gina for birthing au naturale, it was a wonderful thing you did for Olivia. For some weird reason many people have this โall or nothingโ mentality about being natural or green. If you delivered naturally you MUST be breastfeeding and cloth diapering; or if you had a c-section you MUST be formula feeding and using disposables. There is no black and white with parenting, there will always be shades of grey. Why do people feel that itโs their business anyway?
I look up to you Gina, as a mother and as a health and fitness blogger, whether you formula feed, use disposables, or like to sing Gangham style in the shower, itโs all gravy with me! Iโll still love you as a person and Iโll still continue to read your blog. ERRRYDAY!
I cloth diapered my middle child, but then tried with my youngest and the diapers did not fit her the same way and leaked all the time. I should have sold/given away those and bought a different type, but at that point I was kind of over it, so we switched to disposables. Ah well I guess!
One thing that we have done with all three children is potty-trained earlyโat around 19 months for each one (2 girls and a boy). I think this is easier than trying to train a defiant/independent toddler/pre-schooler and drastically cuts the amount of diapers you need to use over the โdiapering lifetimeโ of each child. It took each kiddo about a week of accidents and then they caught right on and I was happy to not buy any more diapers!
Iโm 20 weeks pregnant and researching cloth diapers and disposables, so I knew I could come to your blog for some advice! I love your realistic take on raising a familyโor just living life. Iโm trying to switch to greener, healthier products all around the house, but itโs not easy (or friendly on the budget!). Still, it is frightening how quick people are to judge. Thanks for a refreshing dose of honesty and for being willing to share. I have a feeling our family will be a hybrid family as far as diapers, but who can say?
By the way, have you thought about using The Honest Companyโs diapers? Apparently theyโre among the most biodegradable on the market, and theyโre getting rave reviewsโplus they have fun designs!
we use the 365 brand from whole foods and seventh generation. weโve been really happy with them so far!
the funny thing is that the judgiest ones are the ones who donโt have kids. once you get there, see how crazy/hard it can be, you stop caring what other people are doing. if the kid is happy, healthy and loved, thatโs all that matters